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Phil C


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Hi friends

Yesterday there was rather a significant, how do you do, between myself and another member of this forum in techies corner.

I wish to unreservedly apologise to the forum for being a major part of that mess.

As I have said I suffer depression and a number of other mental add ons, Im afraid bullying gets me going and I felt the need to respond in kind.

The good book tells us (BTW Im not religious) that the power of life and death are in our words. Many years ago I was part of a verbal interchange that led me to make an attempt at ending my life, thats how serious this is. I hear some say toughen up, well I have thanks to many hours with medical professionals and medication.

My postings, yesterday were an attempt to highlight to the member/members their use of abuse, put downs, patronising and other forms of bullying  tactics. I have no idea if my efforts hit home or just bounced around and had little progress.

Now im not that naive or stupid to believe all people will be "nice" to each other, however there is a marked difference between friendly banter and bullying.

I care a great deal for this forum and the people in it, and hate to see it treated in such a manner, and Cindy, who has at times the wisdom of Solomon.

Please be careful and take care of yourselves



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Good words Phil
Lets all chill out and enjoy this great forum
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Phil,

Well said and very true!

With depression, it's not as easy as "get over it" it runs much deeper. However the non neuro typical do have other strengths, compassion, sensitivity, etc which are a blessing.



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jetj wrote:

Phil,

Well said and very true!

With depression, it's not as easy as "get over it" it runs much deeper. However the non neuro typical do have other strengths, compassion, sensitivity, etc which are a blessing.

 Thank you so much jetj, I have a tear in my eyes. See what words can do?smile

 



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Phil C


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I have just had a PM from a person, on this forum who asked if I was OK.

Those few words mean so much, thank you to that dear, compassionate person.

Im OK, thanks now rather emotional over that magnificent PM.

Cindy, you have attracted some beautiful people here. Thank you.

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Good on ya mate. You won't get nasty words or calling you names from me and I tell you that for free.

Keep safe Phil.

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Dougwe wrote:

Good on ya mate. You won't get nasty words or calling you names from me and I tell you that for free.

Keep safe Phil.

Ditto for me also Phil......lots of nice people here, just concentrate on the wheat, not the chaff.....wink smile smile smile 



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Vic41 wrote:
Dougwe wrote:

Good on ya mate. You won't get nasty words or calling you names from me and I tell you that for free.

Keep safe Phil.

Ditto for me also Phil......lots of nice people here, just concentrate on the wheat, not the chaff.....wink smile smile smile 

 You guys rock my world..

Dougwe, its a joy to be your friend

Vic,  we have a very special bond, its called camaraderie...

Your words mean so much.... Take care, and thanks guys ever so much



-- Edited by Phil C on Sunday 2nd of November 2014 01:04:43 PM



-- Edited by Phil C on Sunday 2nd of November 2014 01:10:57 PM

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Goodonya Phil, hang in here!!

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Yes Phil and all struggling with depression/anxiety issues, hang in there Mates. nod.gif

Aussie Paul. smile



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Phil, Rejoice in the comfort and warmth that comes from these beautiful people out here that care so much. You are surrounded by luv, my only wish is that one day we can all be together in the same place out there in the playground for one hell of a happy hour. And buddy you will be there. Take care mate.

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Enjoy the life of the Grey Nomads Phil - stay positive and have fun!

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Thank you for being brave enough to share your Journey. Much Respect. Jen



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Jenzarl wrote:

Thank you for being brave enough to share your Journey. Much Respect. Jen

 X2 it takes a very special and brave man to share his inner most feelings.

thank you



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Thanks you folks,

Your words, from your hearts have made my day.

Thanks you and bless you.

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Phil,

I think a lot of us have had low points in our life, but we all just need to keep on with keeping going.  All the very best mate, and hope to run across you one day.

 

Garry

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Thanks folks, we need to get together one day, maybe at greens next year?

Be safe and dont do dumb stuff.

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