BH wrote [ in part ] ----   I do believe that at our age we all get confused, it appears some more than others *clears throat* Hey Dazren?

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Yep !! your right Michelle ??? I was a Little confused in our last little chat ?? As i thought you were confused,???? However I now Realise that it was a slight case of '' delerium'' that you were suffering, and it only appeared to be confusion.  

Hello, I am so, so sorry to hear you lost your Mum. I lost mine too and I went through what you are going through. Keep strong. Have a cry, reminise,its a devaestating loss to recover from but given time, you will recover. A friend of mine lost her Mum tooand she asked me "how long is this going to hurt?" to that I had no answer. All I could do was hold her and cry with her. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you, Love Rocket n Strop.

sorry for this appearing twice. must have pressed a wrong button sometime. sorry. rocket n strop

BohemianGypsy wrote:

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Hi guys and gals of course.  Yes as Doug said I have had some personal issues to deal with which was the sudden decline in health and the death of my mum which personally I was quite unprepared for thinking mum would live forever.  It left me quite shattered and disillusioned with life in general.  There have been some beautiful people on this forum who have kept in contact with me and you three know who you are and it has kept me going.

Mum died in early December right before my birthday and I have been moping, crying, daydreaming about the what ifs etc since then.  But I do have to get a hold of myself and get my act together.  So I gave myself a good shaking and a stern self talk and here I am back on the forum.  Some days are fabulous and other days I wonder if I will get through them.  You see with Mums death came the end of an era for our family and it is hard to let that go.

I have met online here on the forum some absolutely wonderful people and if hubby ever decides to extract the digit we might get out there in the playground as Doug says to meet some of the awesome people on here.  I think after the trip to Sydney with the van he became gun shy lol and now he is not so keen to take the van out lol much to my disgust.

So I want to personally thank all of you for thinking of me and wondering where I had got to and I want to thank the other muskateers who kept in contact with me and Doug I really really appreciated your words of wisdom and utter kindness, it meant so much to me to read your email and you are the main reason I am back this soon my friend, thankyou.

So what trouble can we four get into now hey?

Who can we play tricks on hehehehehe

Hugs

Michelle

 

Hello, I am so, so sorry you lost your Mum.I lost mine too and I went through what you are going through. Keep strong. Have a cry, reminise. It is a devaestating loss to recover from but given time, you will recover. A friend of mine lost her Mum and she asked me "how long is this going to hurt?" to that I had no answer. All I could do was hold her and cry with her. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Rocket n Strop.

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neilnruth wrote:

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Good to see you back Michelle. We were also wondering where you were but I knew Doug was in touch with you. Your posts will make us all be more tolerant and patient with our Mums while we still have them. Our sympathy and prayers go out to you at this time and we trust you will find this forum and your friends on it will help with the healing process.

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 Thanks Neil and Ruth.  I wasn't so patient with Mum when she was here and that is the main reason I feel so bloody guilty, because I didn't get to right the wrong. 

I am finding myself coming on here more and more now to get that friendship feeling and to take my mind of Mum.

Michelle

_wombat_ wrote:

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I have only just found this topic, so sorry to hear about your loss BG, you will never forget your mum it may get easier but there are special days when you will feel down, those that have been through that process will tell you the same, you never forget, on those bad days come in here and listen to dazren and Dougwe making fools of themselves. take care BG, thinking of you always.

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 Hey Womby thankyou my friend.  I have found myself coming in here more often in the last few days and you are right it does make me smile.  I wouldn't have you three guys any other way other than making galahs of yourselves 

Hugs

Michelle

Dougwe wrote:

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"Nonsense" You must be talking about Dazren and Wombat GD.   Michelle is just a nice lady and me, well I just talk A.C. Not "Nonsense" 

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 Doug you do not talk crap but you do however make me laugh and that's a good thing as do the other two so it is worth it 

Hugs

Michelle

Dougwe wrote:

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BohemianGypsy wrote:

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_wombat_ wrote:

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I have only just found this topic, so sorry to hear about your loss BG, you will never forget your mum it may get easier but there are special days when you will feel down, those that have been through that process will tell you the same, you never forget, on those bad days come in here and listen to dazren and Dougwe making fools of themselves. take care BG, thinking of you always.

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 Hey Womby thankyou my friend.  I have found myself coming in here more often in the last few days and you are right it does make me smile.  I wouldn't have you three guys any other way other than making galahs of yourselves 

Hugs

Michelle

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 Now you have ruffled my feathers.

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 that means you really are a galagh