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milo


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G'day  friends,

Well, life can really throw some curve balls at you cant it?
you all know its only been a few weeks since ben passed on but
its 4 years today since my mother passed away from a 4 year battle with
demenitia and alzimers.
Its been a long struggle for me as we were very close and I'm slowely comming to turms with it, I guess it all takes time , and I still miss Ben terrribly, but I know some day he'll help me find another friend.

We all think we control our lives, but we dont. sometimes I just want to punch th big guy in the nose, other times im amzaed at what he does , I guess thats just part of life, but it hurts.. any way , got some flowers and going to visit mums site today, oh her birthday is on the 19th of this month, she would have been 85 .

All I ask is dont take any one or any thing forgranted, you never know when they might not be around..
milo

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Milo kept thinking of all the good times you had with your loved ones its better to have loved and lost than never loved at all and look for further there is alway some one or thing out there waiting for your love

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Know what your going through. I've just been back to the uk lost my mum 3 weeks ago. I'll miss our weekly phone chats. I think of the fun times we had when I was a kid in the uk, look back in fondness, and a smile at the fun times.

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You survive because you're strong, and that's a great quality.
You are allowed to mourn and miss those who have gone, but just think of the strength you have gained from knowing them, spending time with them, loving them. They've left you a great legacy.
Even your best pet or puppy mate. We are always stronger for these experiences.
Just think of the qualities you have to offer the next person or pet in your life.

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sorry to hear about your mum 12roam, I'm heading over to uk in march..
thanks guys nice we can share our lives, not just travell stuff

id like to share with you all my new friend, although he's not a 4 legged one he's still cute..
my sister found him in there front yard the other day, tried to find the original owner but coulnt and gave him to me, since my 18 year old budge passed away a couple weeks ago

meet Buddy the budgie (after Buddy Holly)

he's only a baby but very friendly..




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Hullo Buddy! How cute! smile

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Pretty birdie Buddy. Looks cute and young enough to teach new language.
Enjoy your new companion who came to you. That must be a good thing.

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thanks Gert and CG, tis been the roughest few weeks of my life for a long time , and im so glad he's here now, at least im not taklking to myself any more!!

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He's georgeous Milo.  Enjoy him,
Cheers,
Sheba.

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milo wrote:

thanks Gert and CG, tis been the roughest few weeks of my life for a long time , and im so glad he's here now, at least im not taklking to myself any more!!





Gee I do that all that time. What does that mean?

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Mum used to talk to herself all the time. When we teased her she would reply "Its the only way to have an intelligent conversation!" biggrin

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It's the only way to get the answer you want to hear too Gert.

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Hey Milo...Buddy is just georgeous!!! So is your teddies.. You, Mate, have a wounderful heart!!! Those who have passed thru your life have loved you. Seems pretty obvious to me why they would!! Those about to come into your life, will love you also. Don't close the door to them mate...you are worth loving.
cheers Dellie

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GORGEOUS BUDGIE MILO ENJOY THE COMPANY WHAT A NICE FRIEND TO HAVE

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