One has a user manual and the other, well, it would be pointless.
Women can spend hours solving a problem by talking about all of the in and outs of it, and all amongst other totally extraneous things. Their 'solution' is dependent upon and only relevant to those in the group who discussed it. Subjective. So it all changes every time the subject is raised 'anew'. Whereas a man strives for a best-fit final solution based on evidence and facts, objective - nothing emotional or intuitive (which are not facts anyhow). Men are despised for not understanding the above.
The rocket women were to launch for the moon....
Next, speculative gossip, which is the least understood by men, and despised in women by men. Simply put, if a women thinks about something for a few minutes, she can imagine all manner of things that could happen. Thought about some more, the bad bits are definitely happening. Why the hell can't women's brains think of the good things? So her unfortunate spouse can expect to defend himself against all sorts of allegations which she has convinced herself might, then could, happen and soon after are definitely happening, which he can only guess at. Fact is, if she or her mates can dream it up, you have definitely done it mate or you are capable of it which is the same, likely worse because you won't admit it (!!). Sadly, the black stains for things you never did, but she and her mates reckon you might do if given the chance, remain in her mind forever.
-- Edited by johnq on Thursday 6th of March 2014 03:00:22 PM
He has a whole series of videos on you tube. So worth the time to sit and watch them all. He is so right so many times!! We watched the whole series with a group of friends a couple of years and the amount of poking the other half that went on was amazing " He is talking about you moments"
We weren't watching it for any reason, the fish weren't biting, there was nothing none of us wanted to watch on TV, the only radio station we could pick up clearly was playing head banging music, and no one felt like playing cards and it was too hot to go to bed and one of the group had downloaded it a hard drive to watch at some point on their holiday as they had been told it was worth watching.