It is lovely to have some of the small things from your Dad, Milo - my son has a spot on his bookcase, a little sandstone box with some ashes, a tiny crocodile his dad loved, some rocks and a model car he made, plus his first oil painting (small) - he likes to have these things around him.

It will get easier, mate, just take it one step at a time.

Gary, and Milo, I reckon the only thing you can take with you is your memories... so make sure you make some good ones!