Thanks all, I had a very nice, quiet birthday with my niece and her family. MagicBob wanted to throw a party for me but I respectfully declined as I am not comfortable socialising since my wife died. We did go out for tea with all the children and that was nice, low key but pleasant. So thank you all for your kind thoughts, thank you Vida for spilling the beans and I look forward to meeting more Grey Nomads as I continue my travels.