What Happened To Jonathan??

_wombat_ · Master (of Mischief)

What Happened To Jonathan??

Firefly · Guru

What happened to Jonathan? cry

I went to send him a PM to see how far off my area he was.

We caught up about a year ago and I knew he was back around here somewhere, hoped he might be calling through soon.

When I clicked his profile, it registers deleted??

the rocket · Guru

I just checked too. he is deleted. come back Jonathon. sh%t. rocket n strop

Firefly · Guru

Good to see you two trusted my word so faithfully

Helena · Guru

Haven't heard Sheba on here either hope she hasn't gone as well what on earth is happening Helena.

lilly31 · Guru

I just text Joh he is ok ..He said he will be in touch with his friends on here ..but said he wont be back ..very sad to lose him ...

_wombat_ · Master (of Mischief)

Firefly wrote:
Good to see you two trusted my word so faithfully

sorry FF, just wanted to see for myself, I wonder if he has been getting abusive PM's or is there some other reason?

animalcarer · Senior Member

oh dear, not cool at all

Firefly · Guru

_wombat_ wrote:
Firefly wrote:
Good to see you two trusted my word so faithfully
sorry FF, just wanted to see for myself, I wonder if he has been getting abusive PM's or is there some other reason?

Only taking the p*ss mate. I know what you mean by doing it, I always have to look for myself too. wink

billeeeeeee · Guru

This is Marj at Greens Lake with Billee and Jules, Norma and Michael. Whats happened to Jonathan. We are shocked. Whatis going on here?

Elle on Wheels · Guru

Can't believe Jonathan is gone, i will greatly miss him..... what is going on?

goinsoon · Guru

Hmmm!! confuse

and Ma, JRH etc, I wonder confuse confuse

billeeeeeee · Guru

Brian Jules wants to know what do you know that we don't know. You can always PM Jules. We all want to know what the hell is going on. Who is causing all the trouble, Marj

goinsoon · Guru

I think they have some issues, but I cannot speak for them and going by comments from some members here suggesting I should leave the forum, maybe I should join them

billeeeeeee · Guru

What a bloody shame. All the good ones are leaving. Chillax people. You only live once

goinsoon · Guru

billeeeeeee wrote:
What a bloody shame. All the good ones are leaving. Chillax people. You only live once

I think I will fight it out for a while here

"Non tha imperfectum manet dum confectum"

animalcarer · Senior Member

I would like to know what the big stink was that caused this exodus of informative , bunch of nomads. thanks

goinsoon · Guru

animalcarer wrote:
I would like to know what the big stink was that caused this exodus of informative , bunch of nomads. thanks

I cannot speak for the others or would I presume to do so, but for me it is that every time I express an opinion or disagree with some members I get truly reamed by both members and also by Cindy.

A couple of members as well as Cindy have suggested I go elsewhere.

Cruising Granny · Guru

If you want to play, you play nice.
There are rules, we all know them, and it's up to us to work within them.
Personally abusing members by PM is not on in any way, shape or form.
If we offend we wear the consequences from Cindy and fellow nomaders. The goal would be to NOT offend, to avoid this personality persecution.
Discussion and disagreement are healthy. Abuse for disagreeing is not.
I believe that's the way a forum works.
The fact that there is open and friendly discussion on this forum is the reason it has survived so long, with so many long-term contributors.
Unfortunately it only takes one dissenting interloper to spoil it for everyone, which results in losing quality contributors.
I thought we were all friends here. It seems I'm wrong. I hope not.
When I contribute I trust my comments and topics would be accepted in the spirit in which they were offered. I'm always open to discussion and debate, but I will not tolerate abuse of any kind, to me or to my friends. Life has taught me that.
I contribute from my personal experiences and try not to participate in idle gossip.
Come on folks, let's get back on track and try to pick up to where it was still fun to be here.
It's a public forum and recent behaviour by grown adults does not reflect well on the individuals who contribute, nor on the site's forum.

milo · Guru

more good peopele gone.. only takes one keyboard warrior to spoil it all..

tonyd · Guru

Agree with Chris on this.
I have been known to express some robust opinions here on the basis that we are all big boys and girls and I feel strongly on certain topics. No malice intended.
But abusive PMs are certainly NOT ON and I would be mortified if people had left after being subjected to them. The PMs I have received from GNs have been sardonic, funny, supportive and/or amusing. Which is as it should be.
Cheers, Tony

Travel Bug · Guru

In response to all of your questions re: Why Jonathan deleted himself from Gn's.....

Jon contacted me yesterday to tell me that he had deleted himself.

He said that he had finally got really pi**ed off with all the whingeing and bitching and doesn't need the negativity.

He gave me permission to tell anyone who asked about it.

-- Edited by Travel Bug on Monday 12th of March 2012 11:17:18 AM

jimricho · Guru

I can't recall having ever seen a post from Jonathan that could be regarded as controversial or likely to upset anyone.

lilly31 · Guru

Joh said he was over all the negitivity that been on here lately ..and yes Joh and nice person it shame that he wont be here .....

_wombat_ · Master (of Mischief)

lilly31 wrote:
Joh said he was over all the negitivity that been on here lately ..and yes Joh and nice person it shame that he wont be here .....

How did I miss all this negitivity ?

_wombat_ · Master (of Mischief)

jimricho wrote:
I can't recall having ever seen a post from Jonathan that could be regarded as controversial or likely to upset anyone.

JR, same here, another good poster gone

goinsoon · Guru

Cruising Granny wrote:
If you want to play, you play nice.
There are rules, we all know them, and it's up to us to work within them.
Personally abusing members by PM is not on in any way, shape or form.
If we offend we wear the consequences from Cindy and fellow nomaders. The goal would be to NOT offend, to avoid this personality persecution.
Discussion and disagreement are healthy. Abuse for disagreeing is not.
I believe that's the way a forum works.
The fact that there is open and friendly discussion on this forum is the reason it has survived so long, with so many long-term contributors.
Unfortunately it only takes one dissenting interloper to spoil it for everyone, which results in losing quality contributors.
I thought we were all friends here. It seems I'm wrong. I hope not.
When I contribute I trust my comments and topics would be accepted in the spirit in which they were offered. I'm always open to discussion and debate, but I will not tolerate abuse of any kind, to me or to my friends. Life has taught me that.
I contribute from my personal experiences and try not to participate in idle gossip.
Come on folks, let's get back on track and try to pick up to where it was still fun to be here.
It's a public forum and recent behaviour by grown adults does not reflect well on the individuals who contribute, nor on the site's forum.

That sounds like an accusation CG, I have never personally abused any member, disagreed yes, voiced my opinion yes and still I say " you all wonder why Ma left the forum" geez!!

Dougwe · Chief one feather

_wombat_ wrote:
lilly31 wrote:
Joh said he was over all the negitivity that been on here lately ..and yes Joh and nice person it shame that he wont be here .....
How did I miss all this negitivity ?

It must have been when you were in the naughty corner mate.

fireheart · Senior Member

I am sad that Jonathon has gone also. He was one of the first to welcome me to this forum and also sent me a lovely PM, giving some really good advice on travelling solo. I really hope he comes back along with the others that have gone. Really is sad, even though one does not know these people personally they are like old friends that have gone. :(

Webmaster · Guru

Hi everybody,
Like many of you I am very disappointed to see Jonathan leave the forum. He has been a highly valued member of the ranks for a number of years and has helped and encouraged numerous grey nomads and wannabe grey nomads over that period.
As I have said many times, this forum is above all a place for positive discussions about all manner of grey nomad related issues. It has been a valuable resource for thousands of travellers … and has spawned countless friendships. I have taken enormous pleasure and pride in this, and in the site’s wonderfully welcoming nature and friendly, helpful membership.
Although, we do often allow discussions to meander off-topic here, we do not allow discussion of political or religious issues. There are plenty of other places where these can be discussed.
For reasons that will always be a mystery to me, it has become obvious that one or two people are not on the forum to make a positive contribution but rather to try to cause mischief and to create division with constant negative posts. I think I have been fairly patient but I will not allow the silly games of a tiny minority to jeopardise the interests and enjoyment of the vast majority any more.
Thank you all for your understanding and support. If anybody has any queries or concerns, please feel free to PM me.