How refreshing to see a politician with a sense of humor! This Kiwi MP makes a speech shortly before the bill was passed in parliament. Very funny stuff... not to mention true, in my opinion. Click here for the video.
brickies said
11:44 PM Apr 19, 2013
Thanks Gary what was Gold , And with a bit of luck soon were will have Gay Nomads Sub Forum
vk6tnc said
11:55 PM Apr 19, 2013
brickies wrote:
Thanks Gary what was Gold , And with a bit of luck soon were will have Gay Nomads Sub Forum
It will be a subtle process.....
First change the spelling of grey to gray
Then drop the "r"
carry1 said
11:59 PM Apr 19, 2013
Go the KIWIS. ........... 2 steps forward. 0 steps back. Thanks Gary for the post ,very funny speech .
spida said
12:23 AM Apr 20, 2013
I was surprised that they did the marriage thing - a Civil Union has been legal in NZ for years but obviously wasnt enough? I like the email going around reminding people that it is the straight people who breed gay children!
tonyd said
01:34 AM Apr 20, 2013
On the positive side, it's good news for all those Kiwi sheep!
valnrob said
01:53 AM Apr 20, 2013
Good on you NZ. Kia kaha!
BohemianGypsy said
04:03 AM Apr 20, 2013
tonyd wrote:
On the positive side, it's good news for all those Kiwi sheep!
Tony that wasn't needed was it? We have New Zealanders here on the forum who may be offended by that.
Michelle
brickies said
05:40 AM Apr 20, 2013
Agree tony in bad taste , Spida that is a true fact when you point out straigth people have gay children and they should be able to be proud of their children
Kiwi-as said
05:56 AM Apr 20, 2013
I am deeply hurt with those comments, i think i will go home. No more Pav and date scones for you all.
vk6tnc said
06:01 AM Apr 20, 2013
Only straight people can have children !!!! Very hot touchy topic. Thank goodness we now live in a society that allows gays to come out of the closet, instead of living a stressful lie all their life. People attracted to their same sex is just a quirk of mother nature.....
I had friends at school who committed suicide or had nervous breakdowns because of their perceived sexuality, so sad.
Funny how the media is biased towards gay women and not men ??? What does that say about us as a culture ?
Judes and Bazz said
06:32 AM Apr 20, 2013
Whakamihi Kai Te Pai New Zealand - Proud to be a kiwi right now. I agree Gary Maurice Williams speech was very funny and absolutely true. May be now this bill will pave the way for more pride and happiness in the world. Parents may now be able to display pride in their kids and gay people will be allowed to simply be proud and happy. Jude :)
vk6tnc said
06:44 AM Apr 20, 2013
Kiwi-as wrote:
I am deeply hurt with those comments, i think i will go home. No more Pav and date scones for you all.
Bye Bye. Please leave the recipe at Customs.
Duh said
08:38 AM Apr 20, 2013
GaryKelly wrote:
How refreshing to see a politician with a sense of humor! This Kiwi MP makes a speech shortly before the bill was passed in parliament. Very funny stuff... not to mention true, in my opinion. Click here for the video.
That bloke should be a stand up comedian Gary, hilarious and well said! Wish some of our pollies were as articulate!
I drool over one of our gay female newsreaders, she is a real doll, Sandgropers on here would know who she is......
spida said
10:05 AM Apr 20, 2013
Nz has almost always been in front of Aus with social innovation I think - dont worry - Julia will change her mind if Barrack allows Gay Marriage. I wonder when she will allow NZ residents to vote so we can start running your country as well
-- Edited by spida on Saturday 20th of April 2013 10:06:11 AM
Gerty Dancer said
10:10 AM Apr 20, 2013
My fathers older brother suicided in the early 1900's. Father barely remembered him, he was only little at the time, but he said his brother, a teenager, was "effeminate". So sad.
-- Edited by Gerty Dancer on Saturday 20th of April 2013 10:25:50 AM
GarrynLyn said
01:53 PM Apr 20, 2013
Vic, You can still drool? At your age?
Garry
GaryKelly said
02:37 PM Apr 20, 2013
Yes, but you're just a dirty old man, Vic. And dribbling is not the same as drooling, ya know. Anyway, I'm pleased to see so many poz comments on this thread. When I started it, I was worried that it would attract phobes outta the woodwork. Nice to see y'all so tolerant and neighborly.
As to a "quirk" of nature... I think it's just that nature doesn't discriminate between the sexes. As one academic put it, sex isn't black and white, it's a spectrum.
And thanks for speaking up, Michelle. I wasn't quite sure how to handle that one.
brickies said
03:03 PM Apr 20, 2013
Yes Gary great post, glad to see such support from this forum , Not only is this great for our Gay people but parents of gay people we have friends who have a Gay child and had found it very had to accept because of public opinion , One would hope the people that make fun of issue start to think before making wise cracks
Rip and Rosie said
03:11 PM Apr 20, 2013
Ontos45 wrote:
I have no objection to people of same sex getting a Civil Union but why a a full marriage? To be the same as straight people?
An old friend was ill, and his wife was with him to deal with the health care services and the doctors. When he died, she planned his funeral with some financial help from Centrelink to pay for it. Although he was intestate, as she was next of kin there was little problem with the house, bank accounts, insurance or superannuation. If they had had any underage children (which they did not) custody of the children would not have been an issue either.
Some time back I worked with a woman who was involved in a very serious car accident.
Although she was involved in a 25 year long relationship with another woman, the hospital recognised only her parents as decision makers for her care etc. She died and her parents, not approving the relationship, dealt with the issue of organ donation and planned the funeral, without her partner's input. She died intestate and her parents were recognized as her next of kin and the estate went to them. It took a court battle for her partner to receive some of her real estate and superannuation.
Now, with a "civil union" these things might be sorted out, but what is the difference between that and a marriage?
Not all marriages are religious events, and therefore they are "civil" unions.
Allowing same sex couples to use the term "marriage" will cost straight couples nothing, nothing at all. It will not change YOUR relationship. As the kiwi said, the sun will rise tomorrow and life will go on.
Not all straight people want to marry and neither do all same sex couples. But some do, and of these, some are successful and some are not.
Restricting the use of the word "marriage" is pedantic.
-- Edited by Rip and Rosie on Saturday 20th of April 2013 03:15:45 PM
BohemianGypsy said
03:12 PM Apr 20, 2013
Judes and Bazz wrote:
Whakamihi Kai Te Pai New Zealand - Proud to be a kiwi right now. I agree Gary Maurice Williams speech was very funny and absolutely true. May be now this bill will pave the way for more pride and happiness in the world. Parents may now be able to display pride in their kids and gay people will be allowed to simply be proud and happy. Jude :)
Judes I wish Australia would come to their bloody senses and put the gay marriages bill in place. Bunch of homophobics in government for sure.
Michelle
BohemianGypsy said
03:15 PM Apr 20, 2013
GaryKelly wrote:
Yes, but you're just a dirty old man, Vic. And dribbling is not the same as drooling, ya know. Anyway, I'm pleased to see so many poz comments on this thread. When I started it, I was worried that it would attract phobes outta the woodwork. Nice to see y'all so tolerant and neighborly.
As to a "quirk" of nature... I think it's just that nature doesn't discriminate between the sexes. As one academic put it, sex isn't black and white, it's a spectrum.
And thanks for speaking up, Michelle. I wasn't quite sure how to handle that one.
No worries Gary. I am not a homophobe at all.
Michelle
BohemianGypsy said
03:19 PM Apr 20, 2013
brickies wrote:
Yes Gary great post, glad to see such support from this forum , Not only is this great for our Gay people but parents of gay people we have friends who have a Gay child and had found it very had to accept because of public opinion , One would hope the people that make fun of issue start to think before making wise cracks
In this instance Brickies I agree totally with you. Young gay people who are too scared to come out should not have to tolerate the opinions of homophobes. My daughter said to me once when she was 16 or 17 yrs old . . .Mum what would you say if I came home and said I was gay? I told her then and have never changed my opinion. Make sure you bring your partners home to meet Dad and I, practise safe sex and don't ever be afraid to stand up and say that you are gay. Her response. . . Shoot, Mum I was only trying to shock you and it backfired lol. But she was so proud of my response she went to her gay friend at school and told him so he could perhaps get the courage to go and tell his parents that he was gay. I love my girls always fighting for the scared.
Michelle
Gerty Dancer said
03:27 PM Apr 20, 2013
There was another vid on the link Gary posted. After the bill was declared passed, the entire house of parliament was up on its feet applauding, someone in the gallery started to sing their beautiful Maori song, and they all joined in. Bunches of flowers were being given out. I was so moved I wept.
What a contrast to the Australian politicians who only ever seem to spout hatred and contempt at each other.... any wonder we are so divided about politics.
Rip and Rosie said
04:09 PM Apr 20, 2013
It amazes me that there are so many differences between Australia and New Zealand, when I had always assumed that kiwis are just like us (except for the speech impediment).
Among the first in the world to allow women's sufferage, indigenous suffrage- and they give the right to vote to anyone with permanent residence (i.e. take your tax money and let you have a say).
I like the kiwi thinking that government should not say no just because they can.............. a big cultural difference that one!
jules47 said
04:50 PM Apr 20, 2013
Gary - that was so good to watch - as was the one where all in the parliament gallery stood up to sing - well worth a watch an listen, makes you proud to be a human being.
One of my grandaughters is gay - and I am proud of her for being aware of who she is! There is another in my family who has never really admitted his sexuality, and it has caused him a lot of heartache in his life.
Australia needs to take a leaf out of NZ's book, and give our citizens equality.
Duh said
05:22 PM Apr 20, 2013
spida wrote: I wonder when she will allow NZ residents to vote so we can start running your country as well
When you let us claim the All Blacks as Ozzies..
Duh said
05:31 PM Apr 20, 2013
GarrynLyn wrote:
Vic, You can still drool? At your age?
Garry
I think it is like Gary said, dribbling what once was drooling at my age now.....the body is weak but the mind and imagination is still very active!
On the subject of NZ, lots of very talented people come from there originally, like Fred Hollows, Kiwi born and bred !
Well done to NZ for leading the way on the Gay issue, agree about their pollies leaving ours for dead in their Paliament conduct as well!
Ontos45 said
07:07 PM Apr 20, 2013
I don't know what the big deal is, to be married. Iv'e been married 3 times and my ex partners and I could not get out of it fast enough. Good friends now. Also am frustrated when a label appears in conversation -homophobe, makes you feel on the outa if you don't agree. Like being called a Racist if you disagree with boat people etc. I have no objection to people of same sex getting a Civil Union but why a a full marriage? To be the same as straight people? Looking at the divorce rate of hetro's seems a slippery slope to being single and broke.
GaryKelly said
07:44 PM Apr 20, 2013
Why a full marriage, Ontos? So gays can have the same rights and privileges. In other words, to remove discrimination. Remember, marriage is an option, not a requirement. If people of any sexuality don't wanna get married, fine. If they do, fine.
How refreshing to see a politician with a sense of humor! This Kiwi MP makes a speech shortly before the bill was passed in parliament. Very funny stuff... not to mention true, in my opinion. Click here for the video.
It will be a subtle process.....
First change the spelling of grey to gray
Then drop the "r"
On the positive side, it's good news for all those Kiwi sheep!
Tony that wasn't needed was it? We have New Zealanders here on the forum who may be offended by that.
Michelle
I am deeply hurt with those comments, i think i will go home. No more Pav and date scones for you all.
I had friends at school who committed suicide or had nervous breakdowns because of their perceived sexuality, so sad.
Funny how the media is biased towards gay women and not men ??? What does that say about us as a culture ?
I agree Gary Maurice Williams speech was very funny and absolutely true. May be now this bill will pave the way for more pride and happiness in the world. Parents may now be able to display pride in their kids and gay people will be allowed to simply be proud and happy.
Jude :)
Bye Bye. Please leave the recipe at Customs.
That bloke should be a stand up comedian Gary, hilarious and well said! Wish some of our pollies were as articulate!
I drool over one of our gay female newsreaders, she is a real doll, Sandgropers on here would know who she is......
Nz has almost always been in front of Aus with social innovation I think - dont worry - Julia will change her mind if Barrack allows Gay Marriage.
I wonder when she will allow NZ residents to vote so we can start running your country as well
-- Edited by spida on Saturday 20th of April 2013 10:06:11 AM
My fathers older brother suicided in the early 1900's. Father barely remembered him, he was only little at the time, but he said his brother, a teenager, was "effeminate". So sad.
-- Edited by Gerty Dancer on Saturday 20th of April 2013 10:25:50 AM
Vic, You can still drool? At your age?
Garry
As to a "quirk" of nature... I think it's just that nature doesn't discriminate between the sexes. As one academic put it, sex isn't black and white, it's a spectrum.
And thanks for speaking up, Michelle. I wasn't quite sure how to handle that one.
An old friend was ill, and his wife was with him to deal with the health care services and the doctors. When he died, she planned his funeral with some financial help from Centrelink to pay for it. Although he was intestate, as she was next of kin there was little problem with the house, bank accounts, insurance or superannuation. If they had had any underage children (which they did not) custody of the children would not have been an issue either.
Some time back I worked with a woman who was involved in a very serious car accident.
Although she was involved in a 25 year long relationship with another woman, the hospital recognised only her parents as decision makers for her care etc. She died and her parents, not approving the relationship, dealt with the issue of organ donation and planned the funeral, without her partner's input. She died intestate and her parents were recognized as her next of kin and the estate went to them. It took a court battle for her partner to receive some of her real estate and superannuation.
Now, with a "civil union" these things might be sorted out, but what is the difference between that and a marriage?
Not all marriages are religious events, and therefore they are "civil" unions.
Allowing same sex couples to use the term "marriage" will cost straight couples nothing, nothing at all. It will not change YOUR relationship. As the kiwi said, the sun will rise tomorrow and life will go on.
Not all straight people want to marry and neither do all same sex couples. But some do, and of these, some are successful and some are not.
Restricting the use of the word "marriage" is pedantic.
-- Edited by Rip and Rosie on Saturday 20th of April 2013 03:15:45 PM
Judes I wish Australia would come to their bloody senses and put the gay marriages bill in place. Bunch of homophobics in government for sure.
Michelle
No worries Gary. I am not a homophobe at all.
Michelle
In this instance Brickies I agree totally with you. Young gay people who are too scared to come out should not have to tolerate the opinions of homophobes. My daughter said to me once when she was 16 or 17 yrs old . . .Mum what would you say if I came home and said I was gay? I told her then and have never changed my opinion. Make sure you bring your partners home to meet Dad and I, practise safe sex and don't ever be afraid to stand up and say that you are gay. Her response. . . Shoot, Mum I was only trying to shock you and it backfired lol. But she was so proud of my response she went to her gay friend at school and told him so he could perhaps get the courage to go and tell his parents that he was gay. I love my girls always fighting for the scared.
Michelle
What a contrast to the Australian politicians who only ever seem to spout hatred and contempt at each other.... any wonder we are so divided about politics.
Among the first in the world to allow women's sufferage, indigenous suffrage- and they give the right to vote to anyone with permanent residence (i.e. take your tax money and let you have a say).
I like the kiwi thinking that government should not say no just because they can.............. a big cultural difference that one!
One of my grandaughters is gay - and I am proud of her for being aware of who she is! There is another in my family who has never really admitted his sexuality, and it has caused him a lot of heartache in his life.
Australia needs to take a leaf out of NZ's book, and give our citizens equality.
When you let us claim the All Blacks as Ozzies..
I think it is like Gary said, dribbling what once was drooling at my age now.....the body is weak but the mind and imagination is still very active!
On the subject of NZ, lots of very talented people come from there originally, like Fred Hollows, Kiwi born and bred !
Well done to NZ for leading the way on the Gay issue, agree about their pollies leaving ours for dead in their Paliament conduct as well!
I don't know what the big deal is, to be married. Iv'e been married 3 times and my ex partners and I could not get out of it fast enough. Good friends now.
Also am frustrated when a label appears in conversation -homophobe, makes you feel on the outa if you don't agree. Like being called a Racist if you disagree with boat people etc.
I have no objection to people of same sex getting a Civil Union but why a a full marriage? To be the same as straight people? Looking at the divorce rate of hetro's seems a slippery slope to being single and broke.