Had a couple of meltdowns this week. Quite scary like panic attacks.
Felt I couldnt hardly breathe, no not a heart attack, just sheer upset, and bawling again. Went to the doctor, she said I wasnt going mad, .
At a bit of an upset where I volunteer, to cut a long story short, another woman who has since apologised to me, got right up in my face so to speak, a real bossy boots, well I just couldnt cope, and started to shake , .
So I am going to give myself some space from that place for a while.
It just came out of left field, I had been coping so well up to that point.
I have some good news though it looks like Howard will get insurance payout for his disability, which will be a lifeline to us both.
Did not visit my drinking friend, as I need to look after myself first.
I have stop whinging, sorry guys.
milo said
06:01 PM Nov 10, 2011
whing away Lynette, Ive been struggling alot with things myself latley with dad, quite stressed out i i remember once when some one had a go at me, well, my band actaully and I cut loose, the person backed right down, dont think she was expeciting that.. we appogized later and all was ok after, but i havent done it since then.. good luck..
Happywanderer said
06:03 PM Nov 10, 2011
You whinge as much as you like Lyn. Sometimes you have to step back for your own peace of mind. This sounds like one of them. All the best.
goinsoon said
08:47 PM Nov 10, 2011
You are not wingeing Lynette, it is a pity that in some volunteering orginisations and clubs you get people like that, you are right, just step back and take a breather, you will be ok I am sure
pauline said
09:55 PM Nov 10, 2011
Lyn I think is good you are stepping back from friend with problem, sometimes we really need to look after ourselves first, if we don't who will........now it is time for you and Howard to just live and love and have a bloody great time..............
Travel Bug said
10:24 PM Nov 10, 2011
Lyn, I think that you are doing the right thing trying to get yourself back on track. Sometimes you need to just take care of you for a while.
Great news about Howard. That will be a load off both of your minds.
Relaxxxxx......and enjoy.....
Cheers. Pam.
Sheba said
10:44 PM Nov 10, 2011
As all the others have said Lynette, you have to take care of you first. If you don't, you'll be no good for any-one else either.
You two need some time for yourselves, to unwind, and re-charge.
And letting off steam is not wingeing.
Cheers,
Sheba.
Elle on Wheels said
02:33 AM Nov 11, 2011
Hey Mate you are not wingeing a melt down is a meltdown.
Those agro people in the volunteer orgs are not worth wasting your time on. You are a caring person who has the emotional honesty to express that in crying and otherwise. That is gutsy.
Look after yourself and you know you have friends here. PM me if you want.
Vic said
11:18 AM Dec 2, 2011
Hang in there Lynette, and yes, look after yourself first, take it easy,
Had a couple of meltdowns this week. Quite scary like panic attacks.
Felt I couldnt hardly breathe, no not a heart attack, just sheer upset, and bawling again. Went to the doctor, she said I wasnt going mad, .
At a bit of an upset where I volunteer, to cut a long story short, another woman who has since apologised to me, got right up in my face so to speak, a real bossy boots, well I just couldnt cope, and started to shake , .
So I am going to give myself some space from that place for a while.
It just came out of left field, I had been coping so well up to that point.
I have some good news though it looks like Howard will get insurance payout for his disability, which will be a lifeline to us both.
Did not visit my drinking friend, as I need to look after myself first.
I have stop whinging, sorry guys.
i i remember once when some one had a go at me, well, my band actaully and I cut loose, the person backed right down,
dont think she was expeciting that.. we appogized later and all was ok after, but i havent done it since then..
good luck..
You are not wingeing Lynette, it is a pity that in some volunteering orginisations and clubs you get people like that, you are right, just step back and take a breather, you will be ok I am sure
Lyn, I think that you are doing the right thing trying to get yourself back on track. Sometimes you need to just take care of you for a while.
Great news about Howard. That will be a load off both of your minds.
Relaxxxxx......and enjoy.....
Cheers. Pam.
As all the others have said Lynette, you have to take care of you first. If you don't, you'll be no good for any-one else either.
You two need some time for yourselves, to unwind, and re-charge.
And letting off steam is not wingeing.
Cheers,
Sheba.
Those agro people in the volunteer orgs are not worth wasting your time on. You are a caring person who has the emotional honesty to express that in crying and otherwise. That is gutsy.
Look after yourself and you know you have friends here. PM me if you want.
Vic